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CHILD's HISTORY and FAMILY BACKGROUND
7. Child's History and Family Background Reporting Form
Tools for Early Identification and Intervention- 0-5 years
By James J. Messina, Ph.D.

Document
Downloadable Copy: Child History and Family Background Form

CHILD'S HISTORY and FAMILY BACKGROUND REPORTING FORM

Name of Child:                                   Date of Birth:

Parents complete this form (preferably typed out) and bring copies into all future Developmental Assessment for which your child is scheduled.
       Child's Name:
       Birth Date:
       Age:
       Sex:
       Home Address:
       Street:
       City:
       State:
       Zip:
       Home Phone:
       Child's School's Name:
       Child's Grade Level : 
 
Adults with whom child is living:(circle which adults live with child)
       Natural Mother
      Natural Father
       Stepmother
       Stepfather
       Adoptive Mother
       Adoptive Father
       Foster Mother
       Foster Father
       Other:

Non-residential adults involved with child:
(circle adults involved with child)
       Natural Mother
       Natural Father
       Stepmother
       Stepfather
       Adoptive Mother
       Adoptive Father
       Foster Mother
       Foster Father
       Other:

Adults child is living with:

       Maternal Guardian's Name:

       Occupation:
       Work Phone:


       Paternal Guardian's Name:
       Occupation:
       Work Phone:

Who referred you?
       Name:
       Address:
       Phone:

Briefly state main problems of your child:



Check only  if True for your child
PREGNANCY
       _____Excessive Vomiting
       _____Hospitalization Required
       _____Excessive staining/ blood loss
       _____Threatened miscarriage
       _____Infection(s) (specify)
       _____Toxemia or eclampsia
       _____Operation(s) (specify)
       _____Other illness(es) (specify)
       _____Smoking during pregnancy and number of cigarettes per day:
       _____Alcoholic consumption during pregnancy/how much consumed a day:
       _____Medications taken during pregnancy (specify):
       _____X-ray studies during pregnancy (specify):
Duration of pregnancy (weeks):

DELIVERY
Type of Labor:
       _____Spontaneous
       _____Induced - duration of hours:
Type of Delivery:
       _____Normal
       _____Breech
       _____Caesarean
Complications:
       _____Cord around neck
       _____Hemorrhage
       _____Infant injured during delivery
       _____Infant positive for cocaine or other substance (specify):
Birth weight:__________

POST DELIVERY PERIOD
       Jaundice
       Cyanosis (turned blue)
       Intensive Care Nursery
       Infection (specify):
       Cerebral bleed
       Other health complications after birth (specify): ____________
How many days was infant in Hospital after delivery:________

INFANCY PERIOD (Birth - 18 months) and TODDLER PERIOD (18 months - 3 Years)
       _____Easy baby
       _____Average baby
       _____Difficult baby
       _____Very active as infant and toddler
       _____Average level of activity as infant and toddler
       _____Not active as infant and toddler
       _____Feeding problems
       _____Enjoyed cuddling
       _____Was not calmed by being held or stroked
       _____Colicky
       _____Sleep pattern difficulties and/or diminished sleep
       _____Excessive restlessness
       _____Problems with responsiveness and alertness
       _____Head banging
       _____Experienced health problems during this period of life
       _____Had any congenital problems
       _____Diagnosed as having the following disability or condition:
       _____Constantly into everything
       _____Excessive number of accidents compared to other children
       _____More sociable than others
       _____Average sociability
       _____More unsociable than others
       _____Very insistent when wanted something
       _____Average insistent when wanted something
       _____Not at all insistent when wanted something

DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES Check appropriate box that is True for your child
Milestone
Early accomplish
Normal accomplish
Late accomplish
smiled
 
 
 
sat without support
 
 
 
crawled
 
 
 
stood without support
 
 
 
walked without assistance
 
 
 
spoke first words
 
 
 
said phrases
 
 
 
said sentences
 
 
 
bladder trained, day
 
 
 
bladder trained, night
 
 
 
bowel trained , day
 
 
 
bowel trained, night
 
 
 
rode tricycle
 
 
 
rode bicycle (without training wheels)
 
 
 
buttoned clothing
 
 
 
tied shoelaces
 
 
 
named colors
 
 
 
counted to 10
 
 
 
named coins
 
 
 
said alphabet in order
 
 
 
began to read
 
 
 

COORDINATION Check appropriate box that is true for your child

Motor skill
Good
Average
Fair
walking
 
 
 
running
 
 
 
throwing
 
 
 
catching
 
 
 
shoelace tying
 
 
 
writing
 
 
 
athletic ability
 
 
 
What type of physical activities does your child engage in?

MEDICAL HISTORY:
Check appropriate box for your child:
Condition
Good
Fair
Poor
health in general
 
 
 
hearing
 
 
 
speech articulation
 
 
 
vision
 
 
 
gross motor coordination
 
 
 
fine motor coordination
 
 
 
Child has or has had the following:
Chronic Conditions:
       _____chronic asthma
       _____diabetes
       _____heart condition
       _____HIV/AIDS
Childhood Diseases:
       _____mumps
       _____chickenpox
       _____measles
       _____whooping cough
       _____scarlet fever
       _____pneumonia
       _____encephalitis
       _____otitis media (fluid in ear)
       _____lead poisoning
       _____seizures with fever
       _____seizures without fever
       _____coma
       _____persistent high fever
       _____other disease(s) (specify):
Accidents resulting in:
       _____broken bones
       _____severe lacerations
       _____head injury
       _____severe bruises
       _____stomach pumped for poisoning or other (specify):
       _____eye injury
       _____lost teeth
       _____sutures (stitches)
       _____Specify number of accident(s) child has had:
Surgery for the following:
       _____tonsillitis
       _____adenoids
       _____hernia
       _____appendicitis
       _____eye, ear, nose, & throat
       _____digestive disorder
       _____urinary tract
       _____leg or arm
       _____burns
       _____other (specify):
       _____Specify number of surgery(s) child has had:
       _____Specify number of incidents child has been hospitalized to date:
Is there a history of:
       _____physical abuse in family
       _____sexual abuse in family
       _____alcohol abuse in family
       _____drug abuse in family
Has a problem currently with:
       _____sleeping
       _____being a restless sleeper
       _____bladder control during day
       _____bladder control at night
       _____bowel control during day
       _____bowel control at night
       _____over eating
       _____under eating
Child current health status:
       Weight:
       Height:
       Being treated for:
       On following medications:

FAMILY HISTORY - MOTHER

Age at time of pregnancy:
Pregnancy on mother's part was:
       Planned and wanted
       Unplanned but wanted
*                        Unplanned and unwanted
       Mother's Highest grade completed:
       Describe any of Mother's Learning problems:
       Describe any Mother's Behavior problems:
       Describe any Mother's Medical problems:
List Mother's blood relatives who experienced problems similar to what child is experiencing:
       name
       relationship
       condition or problem

FAMILY HISTORY - FATHER

Age at time of pregnancy:
Pregnancy on father's part was:
       Planned and wanted
       Unplanned but wanted
       Unplanned and unwanted
       Father's Highest grade completed:
       Describe any of Father's Learning problems:
       Describe any of Father's Behavior problems:
       Describe any of Father's Medical problems:
List Father's blood relatives who experienced problems similar to what child is experiencing:
       name
       relationship
       condition or problem

CHILD"S COGNITIVE AND EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND:

Child comprehends directions and situations as well as other children
       yes
       no, why not?
Child's level intelligence in comparison to other children:
       below average
       average
       above average

SCHOOL HISTORY
Rate child's school experiences:
School level
Preschool
Kindergarten
Grade 1-3
Grade 4-5
Grade 6-8
Grade 9-12
Academic
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Socially/ Behaviorally
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor
Good
Average
Poor

At what grade level is your child functioning in:

       Reading:
       Spelling:
       Arithmetic:
Has child ever had to repeat a grade?
       no
       yes, when?
Child is currently placed in a:
       regular class
       special class (specify):
Child is currently receiving special services and counseling:
       no
       yes (specify):

Child's teacher reports child's problem in paying attention or concentrating in:
Situations during
No problem
Minor problem
Major problem
Severe problem
individual work times
 
 
 
 
small groups
 
 
 
 
free-play time in class
 
 
 
 
lectures in class
 
 
 
 
field trips
 
 
 
 
special assemblies
 
 
 
 
movies, videos, filmstrips
 
 
 
 
class discussions
 
 
 
 

Child's teacher describes the following as significant classroom problems:

       _____does not sit still in seat
       _____frequently gets up and walks around classroom
       _____shouts out, does not wait to be called on
       _____won't wait for personal turn
       _____doesn't cooperate well in group activities
       _____typically does better in a one to one relationship
       _____doesn't respect the rights of others
       _____doesn't pay attention during circle time, storytelling or "show and tell"
Describe your concerns about child's school performance:


SIBLING & PEER RELATIONSHIPS

Child gets along with siblings:
       _____doesn't have any
       _____better than average
       _____average
       _____worse than average
Child seeks out friendships with peers:
       yes
       no
Child is sought out by peers for friendship:
       yes
       no
How easily does the child make friends?
       easier than average
       average
       worse than average
Child plays primarily with children who are:
       same age
       older
       younger
Describe what problems child has with peers:

INTERESTS AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS

       What are child's main hobbies or interests?
       What are child's areas of greatest accomplishment?
       What does child enjoy doing most?
       What does child dislike the most?

HOME BEHAVIORS

Child displays the following behaviors to an excessive or exaggerated degree when compared to other children the same age:
      _____hyperactivity (high activity level)
       _____poor attention span
       _____impulsivity (poor self control)
       _____temper outbursts
       _____low frustration threshold
       _____sloppy table manners
       _____interrupts frequently
       _____doesn't listen
       _____sudden outbursts of physical abuse of other children
       _____acts like driven by a motor
       _____wears out shoes more frequently than other siblings
       _____heedless to danger
       _____excessive number of accidents
       _____does not learn from experience
       _____poor memory
       _____more active than siblings or children same age
       _____a "different child"

Types of Discipline used in Home:

       _____verbal reprimands
       _____time out
       _____removal of privileges
       _____rewards
       _____physical punishment
       _____acquiescence to child
       _____avoidance of child
       _____redirection

To what extent are the two guardians in the home consistent with respect to disciplinary strategies:

       _____most of the time
       _____some of the time
       _____none of the time
Have any of the following stress events occurred within the past 12 months?
       _____parents divorced or separated
       _____family accident or illness
       _____death in family
       _____parent changed job
       _____changed schools
       _____family moved
       _____family financial problems
       _____other (specify):

Child has problems paying attention or concentrating in any of the following:
Situations when
No problem
Minor problem
Major problem
Severe problem
playing alone
 
 
 
 
playing with other children
 
 
 
 
mealtimes
 
 
 
 
getting dressed
 
 
 
 
watching TV
 
 
 
 
visitors are in the home
 
 
 
 
visiting someone else
 
 
 
 
at church or Sunday school
 
 
 
 
in supermarkets, stores, restaurants or other public places
 
 
 
 
asked to do chores at home
 
 
 
 
during conversations with others
 
 
 
 
in the car
 
 
 
 
father is home
 
 
 
 
asked to do school homework
 
 
 
 

Check the box which best describes your child:
Behavior
Not at all
Just a little
Pretty much
Very much
often fidgets or squirms in seat
 
 
 
 
has difficulty being seated
 
 
 
 
is easily distracted
 
 
 
 
has difficulty awaiting turn in groups
 
 
 
 
often blurts out answers to questions
 
 
 
 
has difficulty following instructions
 
 
 
 
has difficulty sustaining attention to tasks
 
 
 
 
often shifts from one uncompleted activity to another
 
 
 
 
has difficulty playing quietly
 
 
 
 
often talks excessively
 
 
 
 
often interrupts or intrudes on others
 
 
 
 
often does not seem to listen
 
 
 
 
often loses things necessary for tasks
 
 
 
 
often engages in physically dangerous activities without considering consequences
 
 
 
 

Check the box which best describes your child's current behaviors:
Behavior
Not true
Somewhat true
Very true
fails to finish things which were started
 
 
 
can't concentrate, can't pay attention for long
 
 
 
can't sit still, restless, or hyperactive
 
 
 
fidgets
 
 
 
daydreams or gets lost in thoughts
 
 
 
impulsive or acts without thinking
 
 
 
difficulty following directions
 
 
 
talks out of turn
 
 
 
messy work
 
 
 
inattentive, easily distracted
 
 
 
talks too much
 
 
 
fails to carry out assigned tasks
 
 
 

Has child displayed any of the following:

       _____stereotyped mannerisms
       _____odd postures
       _____excessive reaction to noise or fails to react to loud noises
       _____overreacts to touch
       _____compulsive rituals
       _____perseveration
       _____self-stimulation
       _____motor tics
       _____vocal tics

List child's siblings:

       Name:
       Age:
       Developmental problems if any:
       Medical problems if any:
       Social problems if any:
       School problems if any:

List names and addresses and telephone numbers of all professionals involved with your child or consulted concerning your concerns about the child:
       Name:
       Professional Title/Position:
       Address:
       Telephone:
       Fax:
       Email:

ADDITIONAL REMARKS which will help in assessing your child's needs:

Please use the back of this page to write any additional remarks you may wish to make regarding your child's difficulties.
       Signed:
       Parent or Guardian Name:
       Date you filled it out

Please bring this completed form to your child's assessment appointment(s) or mail it to be reviewed prior to your first appointment. Taking the time to fill this form out will assist you to help your child's treatingprofessionals to have a more complete understanding of who your child is.


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